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Friday, October 4, 2019

GOING ON A BLIND DATE ?? | RELATIONSHIP TALK

October 04, 2019 0 Comments
GOING ON A BLIND DATE | MAKE SURE TO DISCUSS WITH FRIENDS
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BLIND DATE..??.In today's technology era, online relationships are very common. Many times it happens that someone you meet online starts liking you. In such a situation, if you are planning to meet that person i.e a blind date, then it is important that you take care of some things. This will not only make your data perfect, but you will also be safe.

Take care of these things

Call required
Even if you have made an appointment with a person after talking online, it is better that you spend some time on the phone with each other before meeting. If you talk on the phone first, you will get to know the person in front.

Select Venue
When going to meet someone for the first time, you should keep your safety in mind. Therefore, make use of meeting in such restaurants, which you are already familiar with. Do not visit any unfamiliar place. Tell a close friend about this plan.
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Online research
This is also a next step of security. Many times people give wrong information in their profiles on social media. In such a situation, if you want to protect yourself, then do research online about that person. Nowadays a person is on many sites. In such a situation, you can protect yourself by crosschecking the information given by him. His common friends can also be talked about what is the truth of such and such person. This effort of yours will prevent you from taking any wrong step in future.

Positive conversation
When you meet someone for the first time, try to keep your conversation positive.You can start the conversation with some positive things. These kinds of things will make both of you feel comfortable and you can have a comfortable conversation.
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No personal talk
After the first meeting, if both of you have liked each other, then still avoid too much personal things from the stock. Until the trust in your way is completely restored. Do not share the transport with your personal things.


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Wednesday, October 2, 2019

HOW TO BE HAPPY??

October 02, 2019 0 Comments
IT IS NOT SO HARD TO BE HAPPY 7 things that will make you happy and teach you the way to live


how to be happy??

HOW TO BE HAPPY?? : Whether we are at any stage of life, at any stage, to keep ourselves strong, the most important is to be happy. But, in fulfilling every relationship or taking responsibility, we often neglect ourselves. It is also important to be happy because in such situations solutions of complex problems are also easily found. Know some things from psychologist Nur Jahan Khan that you can be happy yourself.

7 points: how to keep yourself happy

1.Identify yourself
Every person is unique in himself. you are also. Try to identify special qualities without comparing yourself to anyone else. Rekindle curiosity and interest in your personalities. Try to know yourself and understand yourself without weighing anyone else's test or test on any scale.

2. Priorities required
We begin to consider those important things that maybe does not give us true happiness. In such a situation, try to know what your priorities are. It is good for other relationships to be a little flexible and generous, but keep trying to understand what makes your own family more meaningful and prosperous.
how to be happy

3.Celebrate achievements
When the other person knows a success, then we are filled with admiration towards him but ignore his success. Accept all your small and big success wholeheartedly and keep celebrating it continuously. Do not think how this success was achieved. In this way, not only will you keep yourself happy, but you will also be able to motivate yourself for the challenges.

4.Taking care of health
It is very difficult to be happy with yourself in an unhealthy body. If you keep yourself physically and mentally healthy and live a balanced and healthy routine, then your body also thanks you. If the body is fit and smooth then you can be more satisfied towards you. You can also relax and work.

5.Keep your hobbies alive
We often surround ourselves in many settings and ignore some hobbies that make us happy. Make a list of your interests. Take time out for your interests, be it gardening or long walks, painting or singing, decorating the house or spending time with a pet.
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6.Challenge yourself
Sometimes taking time out of your routine and doing something new is helpful in bringing newness and freshness to life. Do something that you have not done before, or do some of the work of everyday in some new way. Learn new languages, play new games, meet new people, learn new languages, do some new experiments, meet new people or read new subjects.

 7.keep yourself friendly
Only if our way is full of friendship with ourselves can we be happy with ourselves. Just as we forgive the mistakes of our friends, we are compassionate towards them, in the same way we can also be kind and generous to ourselves. In such a difficult time, you will not get lonely and incomplete.

HOW TO BE HAPPY


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Friday, September 27, 2019

YOU HAD ONLY ADDICTED OF ME..-UNNAMED-CH-14- LOVE STORY-STORYTELLERPRTM

September 27, 2019 0 Comments
UNNAMED
Feel the romance and love      
by-pritam tirkey

Chapter-14:YOU HAD ONLY ADDICTED OF ME..
(The conclusion)
STORYTELLER-UNNAMED-CH-14-AKANSHA WEDDING BROKEN-a short romantic storystoryteller

But Aryan is still conscious about Akansha.His mind was stuck of Akansha.He called hospital for enquiry,about Akansha.But they told,her parents took her from here🌐.They transferred her from here to their city.

Aryan-okk,can you tell me,after how long she will be fine??

Nurse-with a good take and care,I am sure she will be fine in 2-3 weeks.

 Aryan-okk,thanks.

Nurse-your welcome sir.


Aryan tried every possible way to contact her but,didnt get any reply,anything about Akansha.He was kind of depressed.ONE DAY late night around 2:30am,he was smoking in his room balcony,his mother caught him.
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Aryan mom- Is everything is fine??

Aryan tried to hide it,he threw it outside from balcony..

Aryan-mom,what happen??you are here.
STORYTELLER-UNNAMED-CH-14-AKANSHA WEDDING BROKEN-a short romantic storya love story-UNNAMED

Aryan mom-Dont worry,i am not in cultural shock of your smoking.your bag had more cigarette packet than your clothes.And now i am worrying about the watchman of this building,who always stood right downward from here.His head might burned.

Watchman(shouting)-Atleast see,before throwing.you illiterate people.My hair got burned..

Aryan mom- see,....
..but what happen❓,still awake😳😡.

Aryan-nothing serious mom.

Aryan mom-okk,but well i can see your depressed face.come on tell me,what is the matter.

Aryan told her about Akansha that, she was hospitalized 2 months ago,and yet i dont get any news about her.....i hope,she was fine.

Aryan mom(joking)-ohh...h,that's the reason,why someone didnot feel asleep.

Aryan-mom,there is nothing like that.we are just friends...

Aryan mom-just friends..??

Aryan- good friends,we really take care of each other....

Aryan mom-Aryan,i must tell you,i really  like her.She is extremely beautiful.
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Aryan-so what should i do??I dont have anything to do with her beauty.

Aryan mom-okay,but i wish she was fine and god bless✝ her.

Aryan-Ok mom,now you go..go..go.Now i am feeling sleepy.

Aryan mom came out from his room,Aryan switch of the light,and he keeps on swiping her image on his phone.......
STORYTELLER-UNNAMED-CH-14-AKANSHA WEDDING BROKEN-a short romantic story

Aryan tried every possible way to get in touch with her,but he didnt succeed.

(6 month passed away)

STORYTELLER-UNNAMED-CH-14-AKANSHA WEDDING BROKEN-a short romantic story

One day,he got an email.The email was wedding invitation letter..........Akansha was getting married.Day after tomorrow,she has a marriage.Instantly Aryan packed🛄 his stuff.

Aryan mom- where are you going??

Aryan-mom,dont worry i am not going to left you again.This time i am going to fullfil your dream.

And he was on the way.Aryan reached wedding destination quite late.50% of marriage was done.The main segment was still left.The bribe(Akansha) and groom sat on the stage,waiting for the right time for final step.Aryan goes and stand in front of them.Hopefully Akansha recognize him,she came down from the stage..

Akansha-unexpected.And by the way,you have 5 minutes to talk.

Aryan-congratulation.

Akansha-thanks,but i am sure,after travelling 3500km you are not here just for congratulating me..

Aryan-what do you mean??you had only addicted of me.

STORYTELLER-UNNAMED-CH-14-AKANSHA WEDDING BROKEN-a short romantic story

Akansha-Now i dont care and please dont ruin this.we are just 1 step backward to called married.

(Everyone in that venue starts calling Akansha for her final step,and now everyone was watching them...

(Aryan holds her hand,eye to eye contact)

Aryan-Are you happy with him❓

Akansha-it dosen't mean anything to yo.

Aryan-it means no.
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Aryan kissed her in her lips,in front of everyone👥👫(a long kiss).The groom losses his temper,he starts destroying things,he throw his marriage cap in the fire.Finally the marriage didnt occur.

(At evening..)
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(Akansha and Aryan walking besides the beach)

Akansha-Although,you have kissed me for the first time.I thought you are gay.

Aryan-just because of situation demanded,otherwise i am not interested in kissing you at your 4 inch fat lips....

Akansha-wait,today nobody will protect you...
STORYTELLER-UNNAMED-CH-14-AKANSHA WEDDING BROKEN-a short romantic storyUNNAMED-the end-storyteller#prtm


No more to be continue....
[This was the happy ending of my story(UNNAMED).I hope you had enjoyed.

Monday, September 2, 2019

THESE QUESTION MUST BE ANSWERED BEFORE MARRIAGE | MARRIAGE ADVICE | RELATIONSHIP TALKS

September 02, 2019 0 Comments
THESE QUESTION MUST BE ANSWERED BEFORE MARRIAGE | RELATIONSHIP ADVICE
THESE QUESTION MUST BE ANSWERED BEFORE MARRIAGE | RELATIONSHIP ADVICE

Whether the marriage is arranged with the consent of the family or love marriage, some issues should be discussed openly. If these issues were discussed with Fearless in the first place, then later the situation of confrontation would not have happened. All this may take some time, but before starting a new life, make sure to consider these things:

1. Personality & Lifestyle
It is important to understand deeply about personality rather than on the top. What is the personality of your upcoming partner? Is her lifestyle suitable for you or not? These are a few questions that need to be considered. Like you don't like to party, but the spouse often attends parties. In such a situation, consider how much you will be able to adjust yourself. If someone has a habit of sleeping for a long time, then someone has a habit of smoking. It is important to tell each other about these things also.
THESE QUESTION MUST BE ANSWERED BEFORE MARRIAGE | RELATIONSHIP ADVICE- Personality & Lifestyle

2. Also know family
It is important not only to know each other's family before marriage, but also to be comfortable with them. There should also be clarity about the role of family after marriage, interference in life. After marriage, the family will remain together or the family will be nuclear, it should also be talked about in advance.

3. Health matters
People hesitate to talk or question openly on the issue of health, while it should be the most important, then it is about physical health or mental health. If there is any kind of problem, then the partner should inform it before marriage. You should not hesitate to talk to your partner about health.

4. Carrier and Life Goal
If both are working, such a situation can also be formed when either of them may have to compromise their carrier slightly. Whether it is a change of city after transfer or something. Therefore it is not necessary to talk about life goals in advance.
THESE QUESTION MUST BE ANSWERED BEFORE MARRIAGE | RELATIONSHIP ADVICE-Carrier and Life Goal

5. See the level of intelligence
It is natural to have different opinions on different issues in married life. Each other's way of dealing with petty debate or quarrel matters a lot. If someone shies away from confronting issues or negotiating to resolve them, some people believe in easily resolving issues and moving forward. People are often aware of this aspect of the partner in Love Marriage, but it is a bit difficult to know in arranged marriage. Therefore, enough time should be taken to get to know each other before marriage.

6. economic Affairs
Before the marriage, what are the financial requirements of the partners from each other, how much financial contribution will be made by both of them to run the family, also discuss this issue openly. If both of them plan in advance, then they will be able to plan the expenses etc. If someone is running a personal loan, then also tell each other about it first.

7. Religious beliefs and trust
If Partner's caste, religion or beliefs are different, then it should be discussed on priority. In such a situation, it is the responsibility of both to respect each other's beliefs. Having a different religion can also cause problems in adjusting families after marriage. So keep talking about it in advance.
THESE QUESTION MUST BE ANSWERED BEFORE MARRIAGE | RELATIONSHIP ADVICE | RELATIONSHIP TALKS-7. Religious beliefs and trust

8. Family planning
When to raise a family? Believe in the theory of one child or want two children? Whether or not they will feed the children, these cases seem small, but they can become big later. Therefore, it would be better to know each other's views on these as well.



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Thursday, August 29, 2019

TOO MUCH INVOLVEMENT CAN SPOIL THE RELATIONSHIP | MARRIAGE COUNSELLING | RELATIONSHIP TALKS

August 29, 2019 0 Comments
TOO MUCH INVOLVEMENT CAN SPOIL THE RELATIONSHIP | MARRIAGE COUNSELLING

TOO MUCH INVOLVEMENT CAN SPOIL THE RELATIONSHIP | RELATIONSHIP TALKS

Dhara felt that she was giving her 100% per cent in the relationship, but Ajay does not even do half of it. This expectation and expectation in the relationship has become the reason for the fight between them.

There is a common argument in a quarrel between husband and wife - I do too much for you, children, parents, but you do nothing yourself. Sometimes the partners plead that I give them a lot of time on my behalf, but he does not care about it at all. In relationship, this more than expected Effort becomes a cause of quarrel several times, when either of them starts doing something extra, he starts expecting it from the front. The quarrel just starts from here, here we are telling everything in today's case study too.

Dhara and Ajay came for counselling after the quarrel started. Dhara explained the reason for the quarrel, that his mother-in-law,i.e. Ajay's mother's nature is very dominating. They started talking to both of them separately and scrape the problem. 34-year-old Dhara and 40-year-old Ajay have been married for 10 years and have two sons. Both husband and wife are very educated. Ajay is a lawyer and has his own law firm. Dhara is a housewife and takes care of the children's upbringing. Both are fine with their families. But for the last one year, problems started between the two. Dhara had been feeling for a long time that their relationship was not on track, though Ajay thought it was all right. But when the quarrels between the two started escalating and the conversation stopped for a week, the two decided to go to the counselling.

From counselling,they found that there was a lot of involvement in the matter of house-family-child and husband, while Ajay was the opposite. This was the reason for the quarrel between the two. Dhara wanted Ajay to be involved in every small and big thing like her, keep his opinion. If Ajay spends more time with his parents and children, then Dhara feels that Ajay is spending less time with him. Unknowingly, Dhara became very possessive about Ajay, as she felt that Ajay is spending the least time with her, was completely unaware that in order to make her husband and children more happy She was getting away from him.
TOO MUCH INVOLVEMENT CAN SPOIL THE RELATIONSHIP | RELATIONSHIP TALKS

This problem is not only about Dhara and Ajay. This is a common problem among couples nowadays. In Couples, one becomes excessively entwined in a relationship and then expects the same from the front. But when the other is unable to do so, the problem starts. This happened here in the case of Dhara and Ajay. The problem was not Dhara's mother-in-law, as she was telling, but rather between the couple. In Counselling, they advised Dhara to spend as much time as he needed, instead of spending quality time with the family and being involved in every place and every discipline. Dhara was asked all the time to focus on himself instead of thinking only about husband and wife. We were successful in getting him to believe that not only he but the entire family would get the benefit of lesser invoices. By doing this, Dhara is relatively happier with her family today.
TOO MUCH INVOLVEMENT CAN SPOIL THE RELATIONSHIP | RELATIONSHIP TALKS

It is important to understand that not only husband and wife, but also in the relationship of girlfriend-boyfriend, boss-employee, where only 25% attention and time is required, giving 300% can also spoil a good relationship. 



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Wednesday, August 28, 2019

NO CONVERSATION LEFT....?? SO WAIT...| LIVE YOUR LIFE | RELATIONSHIP TALKS

August 28, 2019 0 Comments
NO CONVERSATION ISSUES LEFT ?? SO WAIT......| LIVE YOUR LIFE
NO CONVERSATION ISSUES LEFT ?? SO WAIT......RELATIONSHIP TALKS

If you think that it has been many years of marriage, you know each other's biggest thing, there is no issue left to talk ..... so wait. If the husband and wife want, then there can be many issues to talk about, it is not just about conversation. Communication in the relationship should be in such a way that not only close proximity between the couples increases, but even minor disputes do not get air. In good communication, only 35 percent matters what is being spoken, 45 percent matters how it is being spoken. Let us know what other issues such as husband and wife can always communicate.

Two words of praise and gestures of eyes do a great job.
Sometimes the beauty, sometimes the dress, and sometimes the admiration and complexity that comes with goodness in the business, gives so much confidence that the partner is able to do it with little problems. These supplements should be in private and in front of everyone.

Sit together and move to flashback.
A flashback of 10 minutes of life before going to sleep at night will recharge you and your partner. Talking about some good moments spent together, some memories, a favorite restaurant dinner, a tip, a memorable movie, will also provide an issue for dialogue and refresh memories of those moments. Occasionally go on holidays, so that some good time can be spent with each other outside of work.
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Don't just talk about likes and dislikes.
Husband and wife are often unable to remember each other's favorite colors, food, dress or even their hobbies. Actually, we know our partner's likes and dislikes, but do not expect him. Otherwise there is no need to memorize the mind by stressing it. All we have to do is not to remember the likes and dislikes, accept it and start doing things accordingly. For example, order the partner's choice of food in the restaurant, never gift their favorite color clothes. Just start preferring their choice. Apart from this, gather resources to fulfill their hobbies and you also try to do something of the same kind. This will provide lots of opportunities to talk to each other.

The relatives of the partner also kept asking about the situation .....
The condition of not only the partner but also his friends and family should be asked. Whenever there is a chance, one should meet them. Mentioning the family of the partner in a mutual conversation can improve mutual communication. Talk about some old things like who was the closest in the house, how to spend quality time. Your partner will feel good and your relationship will get new height.
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Be prepared in advance to handle disputes.
There are small differences between the couples. Be prepared in advance for such a situation and promote understandings on how disputes will be resolved. Communication will continue between the quarrels, so it is certain that no issue can be prolonged.

Make sure to talk about each other's needs. .....
Whether you have spent 30 spring together or 3, the expectations and needs of each other is always known. It goes beyond physical, emotional and financial. Talk to your partners about their wishes and needs. Here the tone or tone of your talk matters a lot, meaning neglecting to ask the need, feeling should not be there at all. It is also more important to understand than to ask here. Such communication between husband and wife brings them closer.
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Tuesday, August 27, 2019

SINGLE PARENTING | RESPONSIBILITY | RELATIONSHIP BUILDING

August 27, 2019 0 Comments
SINGLE PARENTING : THESE 4 HABITS WILL HELP YOU

SINGLE PARENTING : THESE 4 HABITS WILL HELP YOU

Single parenting, whether female or male, teaches them to play the role of both parents in the matter of raising children. No one chooses the option of single parenting, but often this role has to be played.

Time management is an important issue for a single parent. In spite of doing things properly and on time, there remains a gilt feeling in his mind. Such parents are unable to trust others in the matter of giving responsibility of the child to someone else. Single parents are also surrounded by many small fears, for example, will I be able to give good upbringing? Will I be able to support myself? How will people see me? With my upbringing, will the child not feel lacking in another? All of these misdeeds often occur in parental stress. Some habits will help you get out of this tension and prepare yourself.

1. Make your routine
Routines should also be of small things, such as sleeping at a fixed time, folding your bed as soon as you wake up, having your own plate after eating, etc. If you have these habits, then children will also come. This will make the child understand his responsibility for the future. Quality time should also be spent with the child in the daily schedule. If the parent is busy only in himself, then it may also affect the emotional, physical, intellectual and social growth of the child.

2. Care about yourself
When you are healthy and happy, you will be able to take better care of the child. So sleep well with a good diet and exercise. Take some time out in the week for yourself as well, like visiting with friends, also fulfill your hobbies. This will keep you relaxed.

3. Stay positive
There will be ups and downs in life with single parenting. You will be able to handle yourself and the child by remaining positive in this tough life. If you will remain positive, will not pull, and spend your life happily, then the child will remain positive just like you. This will create a positive atmosphere at home.
SINGLE PARENTING : THESE 4 HABITS WILL HELP YOU
4. Learn to accept
Single parenting is able to do well by those who accept it instead of blaming the circumstances. Good parents seek solutions by accepting a difficult time. He deals with the situations seen in front of them such as lack of money, social life limited, understanding the responsibility of alone. Do not keep yourself in a compassionate position.

5. Keep communicating with children
Single parents have to take special care of children and their bonding. Parents should give children freedom to speak freely and with positive communication. They should also put their feelings in front of the child. It is important to listen carefully to the child's words, understand and then react.

4. Set rules and limits
The parent should tell the child the rules and rules of the house. Work within these rules yourself. Many times children do freedom in single parenting and do devils. Children also get addicted to fighting, stealing, addiction etc. It is important to pay attention to this because it will work to spoil life.
SINGLE PARENTING : THESE 4 HABITS WILL HELP YOU



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