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Thursday, August 29, 2019

TOO MUCH INVOLVEMENT CAN SPOIL THE RELATIONSHIP | MARRIAGE COUNSELLING | RELATIONSHIP TALKS

August 29, 2019 0 Comments
TOO MUCH INVOLVEMENT CAN SPOIL THE RELATIONSHIP | MARRIAGE COUNSELLING

TOO MUCH INVOLVEMENT CAN SPOIL THE RELATIONSHIP | RELATIONSHIP TALKS

Dhara felt that she was giving her 100% per cent in the relationship, but Ajay does not even do half of it. This expectation and expectation in the relationship has become the reason for the fight between them.

There is a common argument in a quarrel between husband and wife - I do too much for you, children, parents, but you do nothing yourself. Sometimes the partners plead that I give them a lot of time on my behalf, but he does not care about it at all. In relationship, this more than expected Effort becomes a cause of quarrel several times, when either of them starts doing something extra, he starts expecting it from the front. The quarrel just starts from here, here we are telling everything in today's case study too.

Dhara and Ajay came for counselling after the quarrel started. Dhara explained the reason for the quarrel, that his mother-in-law,i.e. Ajay's mother's nature is very dominating. They started talking to both of them separately and scrape the problem. 34-year-old Dhara and 40-year-old Ajay have been married for 10 years and have two sons. Both husband and wife are very educated. Ajay is a lawyer and has his own law firm. Dhara is a housewife and takes care of the children's upbringing. Both are fine with their families. But for the last one year, problems started between the two. Dhara had been feeling for a long time that their relationship was not on track, though Ajay thought it was all right. But when the quarrels between the two started escalating and the conversation stopped for a week, the two decided to go to the counselling.

From counselling,they found that there was a lot of involvement in the matter of house-family-child and husband, while Ajay was the opposite. This was the reason for the quarrel between the two. Dhara wanted Ajay to be involved in every small and big thing like her, keep his opinion. If Ajay spends more time with his parents and children, then Dhara feels that Ajay is spending less time with him. Unknowingly, Dhara became very possessive about Ajay, as she felt that Ajay is spending the least time with her, was completely unaware that in order to make her husband and children more happy She was getting away from him.
TOO MUCH INVOLVEMENT CAN SPOIL THE RELATIONSHIP | RELATIONSHIP TALKS

This problem is not only about Dhara and Ajay. This is a common problem among couples nowadays. In Couples, one becomes excessively entwined in a relationship and then expects the same from the front. But when the other is unable to do so, the problem starts. This happened here in the case of Dhara and Ajay. The problem was not Dhara's mother-in-law, as she was telling, but rather between the couple. In Counselling, they advised Dhara to spend as much time as he needed, instead of spending quality time with the family and being involved in every place and every discipline. Dhara was asked all the time to focus on himself instead of thinking only about husband and wife. We were successful in getting him to believe that not only he but the entire family would get the benefit of lesser invoices. By doing this, Dhara is relatively happier with her family today.
TOO MUCH INVOLVEMENT CAN SPOIL THE RELATIONSHIP | RELATIONSHIP TALKS

It is important to understand that not only husband and wife, but also in the relationship of girlfriend-boyfriend, boss-employee, where only 25% attention and time is required, giving 300% can also spoil a good relationship. 



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Wednesday, August 28, 2019

NO CONVERSATION LEFT....?? SO WAIT...| LIVE YOUR LIFE | RELATIONSHIP TALKS

August 28, 2019 0 Comments
NO CONVERSATION ISSUES LEFT ?? SO WAIT......| LIVE YOUR LIFE
NO CONVERSATION ISSUES LEFT ?? SO WAIT......RELATIONSHIP TALKS

If you think that it has been many years of marriage, you know each other's biggest thing, there is no issue left to talk ..... so wait. If the husband and wife want, then there can be many issues to talk about, it is not just about conversation. Communication in the relationship should be in such a way that not only close proximity between the couples increases, but even minor disputes do not get air. In good communication, only 35 percent matters what is being spoken, 45 percent matters how it is being spoken. Let us know what other issues such as husband and wife can always communicate.

Two words of praise and gestures of eyes do a great job.
Sometimes the beauty, sometimes the dress, and sometimes the admiration and complexity that comes with goodness in the business, gives so much confidence that the partner is able to do it with little problems. These supplements should be in private and in front of everyone.

Sit together and move to flashback.
A flashback of 10 minutes of life before going to sleep at night will recharge you and your partner. Talking about some good moments spent together, some memories, a favorite restaurant dinner, a tip, a memorable movie, will also provide an issue for dialogue and refresh memories of those moments. Occasionally go on holidays, so that some good time can be spent with each other outside of work.
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Don't just talk about likes and dislikes.
Husband and wife are often unable to remember each other's favorite colors, food, dress or even their hobbies. Actually, we know our partner's likes and dislikes, but do not expect him. Otherwise there is no need to memorize the mind by stressing it. All we have to do is not to remember the likes and dislikes, accept it and start doing things accordingly. For example, order the partner's choice of food in the restaurant, never gift their favorite color clothes. Just start preferring their choice. Apart from this, gather resources to fulfill their hobbies and you also try to do something of the same kind. This will provide lots of opportunities to talk to each other.

The relatives of the partner also kept asking about the situation .....
The condition of not only the partner but also his friends and family should be asked. Whenever there is a chance, one should meet them. Mentioning the family of the partner in a mutual conversation can improve mutual communication. Talk about some old things like who was the closest in the house, how to spend quality time. Your partner will feel good and your relationship will get new height.
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Be prepared in advance to handle disputes.
There are small differences between the couples. Be prepared in advance for such a situation and promote understandings on how disputes will be resolved. Communication will continue between the quarrels, so it is certain that no issue can be prolonged.

Make sure to talk about each other's needs. .....
Whether you have spent 30 spring together or 3, the expectations and needs of each other is always known. It goes beyond physical, emotional and financial. Talk to your partners about their wishes and needs. Here the tone or tone of your talk matters a lot, meaning neglecting to ask the need, feeling should not be there at all. It is also more important to understand than to ask here. Such communication between husband and wife brings them closer.
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Tuesday, August 27, 2019

SINGLE PARENTING | RESPONSIBILITY | RELATIONSHIP BUILDING

August 27, 2019 0 Comments
SINGLE PARENTING : THESE 4 HABITS WILL HELP YOU

SINGLE PARENTING : THESE 4 HABITS WILL HELP YOU

Single parenting, whether female or male, teaches them to play the role of both parents in the matter of raising children. No one chooses the option of single parenting, but often this role has to be played.

Time management is an important issue for a single parent. In spite of doing things properly and on time, there remains a gilt feeling in his mind. Such parents are unable to trust others in the matter of giving responsibility of the child to someone else. Single parents are also surrounded by many small fears, for example, will I be able to give good upbringing? Will I be able to support myself? How will people see me? With my upbringing, will the child not feel lacking in another? All of these misdeeds often occur in parental stress. Some habits will help you get out of this tension and prepare yourself.

1. Make your routine
Routines should also be of small things, such as sleeping at a fixed time, folding your bed as soon as you wake up, having your own plate after eating, etc. If you have these habits, then children will also come. This will make the child understand his responsibility for the future. Quality time should also be spent with the child in the daily schedule. If the parent is busy only in himself, then it may also affect the emotional, physical, intellectual and social growth of the child.

2. Care about yourself
When you are healthy and happy, you will be able to take better care of the child. So sleep well with a good diet and exercise. Take some time out in the week for yourself as well, like visiting with friends, also fulfill your hobbies. This will keep you relaxed.

3. Stay positive
There will be ups and downs in life with single parenting. You will be able to handle yourself and the child by remaining positive in this tough life. If you will remain positive, will not pull, and spend your life happily, then the child will remain positive just like you. This will create a positive atmosphere at home.
SINGLE PARENTING : THESE 4 HABITS WILL HELP YOU
4. Learn to accept
Single parenting is able to do well by those who accept it instead of blaming the circumstances. Good parents seek solutions by accepting a difficult time. He deals with the situations seen in front of them such as lack of money, social life limited, understanding the responsibility of alone. Do not keep yourself in a compassionate position.

5. Keep communicating with children
Single parents have to take special care of children and their bonding. Parents should give children freedom to speak freely and with positive communication. They should also put their feelings in front of the child. It is important to listen carefully to the child's words, understand and then react.

4. Set rules and limits
The parent should tell the child the rules and rules of the house. Work within these rules yourself. Many times children do freedom in single parenting and do devils. Children also get addicted to fighting, stealing, addiction etc. It is important to pay attention to this because it will work to spoil life.
SINGLE PARENTING : THESE 4 HABITS WILL HELP YOU



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Wednesday, August 7, 2019

EVERY HEART SAYS SOMETHING | VALENTINE DAY 2020

August 07, 2019 0 Comments
EVERY HEART SAYS SOMETHING | VALENTINE DAY 2020 

EVERY HEART SAYS SOMETHING | VALENTINE DAY 2020

This valentine-2020,Every heart,colors says something.Emojis are a means of making your talk effective on social media. These emoji also include many types of hearts. Although, their colors are given less attention, but their color is also very important.

Red heart
Red colors heart is a symbol of love.This expresses his attachment and love towards a person.

Orange heart
Half heartedly shows love. Or you can use it when you do not want a relationship other than friendship.

Yellow heart
It shows friendly and pure love, it is away from romanticism for happiness, friendship and enthusiasm of life.
EVERY HEART SAYS SOMETHING | VALENTINE DAY 2020
Green heart
Nature is the color. Indicates closeness to nature, prosperity and newness.But sometimes it refers to jealousy.

Blue heart
 Signifies love,Faith,loyalty, truth and friendship. It is also related to awareness and water related games.

Purple heart
This compassion is a symbol of love, cooperation and sensitivity. It shows the affection between parents and children.

Black heart
Refers to the dark side of the mind and is used in a negative context.It also expresses sorrow and grief.


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